比伯髮長文談年少成名:20歲的我做過一切不好的事情,但婚姻拯救了我

2019-09-13 11:35:41

說起加拿大歌手比伯,你能想到他年少成名的不少經典代表作……


同時也會想到他曾被群嘲的種種“黑歷史”……


最近,比伯就在社交媒體上髮長文談到了年少成名所帶來的種種迷茫和壓力,正面迴應了那些“黑歷史”時刻。

Justin Bieber was in a reflective mood on Sep 2 as he shared a lengthy post to his Instagram laying out the struggles he's faced in his life.

The Canadian hitmaker, who's 25, spoke about being overwhelmed by life and how child stardom had left him 'a shell of a person' unequipped for the pressures and responsibilities his success would bring.

'It's hard to get out of bed in the morning with the right attitude when you are overwhelmed with your life, your past, job, responsibilities, emotions, your family, finances, your relationships,' he wrote. 'Sometimes it can even get to the point where you don't even want to live anymore.'

在長文中,比伯回顧了自己成名以來的心路歷程,並向粉絲們表示,儘管自己擁有了金錢、豪車、各式各樣的服飾和讚美,但他依然覺得“沒有成就感”(unfulfilled)。


“我從一個13歲的小鎮男孩到被全世界稱讚,幾百萬的人和我說他們有多愛我,我有多麼棒。我在小小年紀就聽到了這麼多這些事,然後真的開始相信這一切。”
I went from a 13 year old boy from a small town to being praised left and right by the world with millions saying how much they loved me and how great I was. You hear these things enough as a young boy and you actually start believing it.


“我18歲的時候擁有了幾百萬美元,能獲得我想要的一切,卻完全不知道怎麼和現實世界打交道。這對任何人而言都是一個十分恐怖的概念。”
“I was 18 with no skills in the real world, with millions of dollars and access to whatever I wanted. This is a very scary concept for anyone.”


“到了20歲,我做了一切你們能想到的糟糕決定,從最受全世界喜愛的人變成了最受嘲笑、被人品頭論足和厭惡的人。”
“By 20 I made every bad decision you could have thought of and went from one of the most loved and adored people in the world to the most ridiculed, judged and hated person in the world!”


從那時起,比伯表示,自己的生活就徹底失控了:開始濫用藥物,並且搞砸了一切人際關係……


“我變得充滿怨言,不尊重女性,暴躁易怒。我疏遠了愛我的每個人,藏在我自己變成的一副軀殼之後。”
“I became resentful, disrespectful to women, and angry. I became distant to everyone who loved me, and I was hiding behind a shell of a person that I had become.”


比伯表示,自己花了很長很長時間才調整過來,並試著去修復人際關係,幸好身邊一直有一些很棒的人在愛著他。

“如今我正處於人生中最棒的階段——婚姻!!這是個瘋狂又了不起的新責任。你會學到耐心、信任、承諾、善良、謙遜以及成為一個優秀男人的所有品質。”
“Now I am navigating the best seas on of my life "MARRIAGE"!! which is an amazing crazy new responsibility. You learn patience, trust, commitment, kindness, humility and all of the things it looks like to be a good man.”


最後,他還鼓勵了粉絲們,告訴他們哪怕勝算不大,也要努力奮鬥 (even when the odds are against you, keep fighting)。


嗯,感覺又被比伯塞了一嘴狗糧呢~

來源:Daily Mail




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